If you are having a wedding and are trying to limit the amout of toasters that you get as wedding gifts, then a good idea may be to have a "comunual wedding gift shopping list."
This is simply going to give your guests a few ideas of what you need as far as gifts go. Try to remember that your guests may not always be able to spend fortunes on a wedding gift for you. Keep it simple, keep it to things that you are going to be needing for your new home and life you are going to be sharing with your new spouse.
Another way of getting gifts that you need for your home is to have a theme when you have your engagement party or bridal shower is to set themes, like a bathroom party or a bedroom party.
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